when all is well in our relationships the communication is great! ( most of the time ;0) both people are sharing their feelings. we hug, kiss, make love, talk and even if your patner is not great with words you can usually pick up on how they are feeling by their actions. BUT what happens when there is a problem?? feelings are hurt. we become angry, frustrated, upset and confused. The situation ends up spiraling out of control because there is no communication and we are left most times alone & in the dark wondering "what in the world just happened?" & "how do i fix it?"over the years i have learned the best way to solve a problem is to step into your partners shoes. see the situation through their eyes. you may not always agree with their interpretation but it does help to understand the thoughts and feelings behind their words & actions. seeing what they see or feeling what they feel brings clarity & understanding. so if you find yourself questioning why your partner said something or why he/she hasn't called to apologize or maybe even just wondering what is going on in that persons head & heart? reach out to me & we can step into your partners shoes together to find the answers you are looking for :0) i am here if you need me...

love&light,samara